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Showing posts with label balance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label balance. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Keeping life in proper perspective


Keeping life in balance

I truly believe God made us body, soul (mind, will and emotions), and spirit.  I also believe he expects us to steward all three areas of life well.  If we fall in love with any one of these three to the negligence of the others, we get out of whack.  For example...
We can absolutely fall in love with their bodies.  It can become our obsessive idol.  
We also can be run by the soul.  Our emotions or mental capabilities rule everything.  The problem is that our emotions can lead us all over the place based on such things as a lack of sleep, eating something bad, or seeing a dramatic movie.  Our minds need to be sharpened but we don't, and can’t know everything!  Nobody on this planet does or ever will.  We cannot disregard spiritual things because they seem, in the words of Dr. Spock; "rather illogical".
Finally, we can wrap ourselves in nothing but spiritual things.  When this is done at the abandonment of wisdom we can get flighty.  When we ignore our bodies, they begin breaking down. Illness and fatigue can limit what we can attempt for God.
A couple of years ago I began the practice of taking the first 10 to 21 days of each year and some time in August to fast, pray and make sure things are in line.  This is not an attempt to "try and please the gods to get what I want".  The goal is to take an inventory of what's going on in life and see what needs to go, what needs to change, and where am I just plain missing it.  The fast (usually fruit and vegetables, juices and unsweet or honey sweetened tea) is both physically and spiritually beneficial.  It cleans out the toxins from the body and forces me to see what I'm addicted to (I'm jonesing for some ribs and sweet tea right about now...and a donut!)  By pushing back the plate, I practice discipline I usually wouldn't.  It also focuses my prayer life (more on that in a minute).
  I also basically kill social media.  It does very little to build body, soul or spirit.  As a matter of fact, it can add to unneeded drama and distraction in life.  Not to worry, after the fast I will get back on to see who broke up, who is in a new relationship and catch up on all of the "LMS's" that I missed :). 
The free time allows me more time to pray for family, friends, my church, and what I need to be focusing on in the upcoming year.  
A GREAT resource is Elmer Towns book "Fasting for Spiritual Breakthrough".  It gives 8 biblical examples of fasts and reasons why these fasts occurred (getting wisdom, finances, breaking a bondage, spiritual insights, etc.  Can anyone else relate to needing any of these?).  I use it as a guide for prayer each day.  I also go into the fast with a reading plan in the Bible (either by topic or specific book or whatever I need or "feel led' to read) and many times another book on an area I feel I need to grow. 
It’s not always easy because work doesn’t stop and I still have all of my regular responsibilities.  I just know I will be better at home and work when I do this.  I also figure out that some of those responsibilities don’t need to be on my priority list right now.
Body. Soul. Spirit. 
How about you?  How do you put life back in priority when you know things are getting off kilter? 
Also, is there anything I can be praying for you about?  I promise I will pray and it will not become a sermon illustration.  :)
Thanks for reading and I welcome feedback!

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

...And a new blog is launched


My name is Jack Guerra. I am the father of four kids and the Husband of one wife for 22 years (only wife I’ve ever had).

Professionally, I am a pastor.  It is a career and a calling.  (Side note, I see every opportunity to minister or speak for Christ as our calling no matter what the profession).  I love what I do.  I love people, I love studying and digging into truth, I love dreaming, and I love strategic planning as to how a church can be at it’s best for the community and for the people in the pew.

Many people stop at these first two identifiers.  We can feel closed in or pigeon holed into the tasks of our job and family responsibilities.  Then there is the other stuff.  The stuff we do for fun.  The stuff we do to give back, or, “pay it forward”.  There’s always the stuff that makes us laugh, cry, and that eats at your soul.  I wrote of some of this stuff for me below. 

For some, this list will be too deep.  Too much religious stuff, to many social issues, and to philosophical.  For others, it will seem to shallow.  A lot of playing, friendship, sports and “hanging out”.  It seems to me though that the minority tends to live in either the “all work” mode or the “all play” mode and most of us live in a blended state of all of it.   And this is why I want to write this blog.  My love for God and family will come through loud and clear.  What I do will also be a prominent theme because I love what I do.  Through out the year, so will my love for college sports, friends, yard work, my Del Sol, coaching, Buffalo wings, the beach, the mountains, and all of the other things that bring spice to life. Please feel free to join in and I look forward to doing life together. 

Some of that other “life stuff” for me is:
* College football (it’s bowl season so this is makes the top of the list…Go Hokies)
* Coaching sports for kids of all ages
* Connecting with good friends
* Inner city issues
* Our next generation
* Being Italian
*  Inter-racial relationships
* Facebook (although Twitter is quickly replacing it).  
* Sharing Christ with others who REALLY want to know
*My Honda Del Sol (I love my car but at 255,000 miles, I think her best days are in the rear view mirror)
* Getting GOOD one on one time with my kids.  Not because I have to, but because I WANT to!
* Enjoying one on one time with my wife… and not just at Walmart doing the grocery shopping.   
* Gardening and working with plants.
* GOOD buffalo wings!
* Spending time with God when it has NOTHING to do with preparing a message.
* Talking with someone who doesn’t believe just like me. This can happen with people of all faiths, walks of life, political views, and orientations.  We don’t have to agree to respect one another.